一、很多关系，不是老的好也不是新的好，而是一起经历了一些事之后，你还真切的觉得对方挺好，这才是值得你，去认真对待和掏心窝子的关系。

Many relationships, not old or new, but after some experience together, you really feel that the other party is very good, which is worth you, to seriously deal with and dig into the heart of the relationship.

二、有时候，我们活得很累，并非生活过于刻薄，而是我们太容易被外界的氛围所感染，被他人的情绪所左右。其实你是活给自己看的，没有多少人能够把你留在心上。

Sometimes, we live very tired, not too mean life, but we are too easy to be infected by the outside atmosphere, by other people's emotions. In fact, you are living for yourself, not many people can keep you in mind.

三、不开心的事情要定期清除，那样才有储存快乐的空间。没有过不去的事情，只有过不去的心情，所以，心一定要多点晴朗，活着不是靠心情，而是靠心态。

Unhappy things need to be cleared regularly so that there is room for happiness. There is no thing that can't be passed, only the mood that can't be passed, so the heart must be more sunny, live not by mood, but by mentality.

四、时光就像个大筛子，经得起过滤，自以为玩的不错的好友，也许并不是你想象得那样好，只有经过时间的检验，日久见人心，最后留下来的，才是真正的朋友。

Time is like a big sieve, which can withstand filtering and think it's a good friend to play with. Maybe it's not as good as you think. Only after the test of time, people will see each other for a long time, and finally stay, is the real friend.

五、有喜有悲才是人生，有苦有甜才是生活。无论是繁华还是苍凉，看过的风景就不要太留恋，毕竟你不前行生活还要前行。

Happiness and sorrow are life, bitterness and sweetness are life. Whether it's busy or desolate, don't be too nostalgic about the scenery you've seen. After all, you have to move on if you don't move on.

六、不要执着于令自己痛苦的事物，不要去惦记再也回不去的曾经。过去既然那么让人绝望，人总是要往前走的，有些事，放弃得越早，未来就会越好。

Don't stick to the things that make you miserable, don't think about the past that you can't go back. Since the past is so desperate, people always have to go forward. Some things, the sooner you give up, the better the future will be.

七、人生的旅途中，总有那么一段时间，需要你自己走，自己扛。不要感觉害怕，不要感觉孤单，这只不过是成长的代价。

In the journey of life, there is always a time when you need to go and carry it by yourself. Don't feel afraid, don't feel lonely, it's just the price of growth.

八、时间最会骗人，但也能让你明白，这世界上是没有什么不能失去的！离去的都是风景，留下的才是人生，走到最后的，才是对的人。

Time is the most deceptive, but also let you understand that there is nothing in the world that can not be lost! What we leave is the scenery, what we leave is life, and what we get to the end is the right person.